Dr. Murali Gopal
Senior Paediatrician & Paediatric Pulmonologist
MCR: 57489
MBBS, DCH(UK), MRCPCH(UK), FRCPCH(UK), CCT Paediatrics (UK), Fellow in Paediatric Pulmonology (Aus), Allergology (Ind)
Last reviewed: 17 June 2026
What parents should know
Body image is how a teenager thinks and feels about their body. Puberty, acne, height, weight, periods, muscles, peers, sports, family comments, and social media can all influence body confidence.
This guide does not diagnose eating disorders or provide treatment plans.
Concerns parents may notice
- Frequent negative comments about body shape, weight, skin, height, or appearance.
- Avoiding photos, swimming, sports, social events, or school because of appearance worries.
- Comparing constantly with peers or social media images.
- Secretive eating, skipping meals, bingeing, vomiting after meals, or excessive exercise.
Supportive communication
- Avoid criticism, teasing, public weighing, or comments about body size and shape.
- Ask open questions about feelings, pressure, teasing, social media, and school.
- Keep family routines around meals, sleep, activity, and screens calm and predictable.
- Praise kindness, effort, skills, courage, and problem-solving more than appearance.
- Seek professional support early if eating, mood, or daily life is being affected.
When to seek help
- Restrictive eating, bingeing, purging, fainting, rapid weight change, missed periods, or excessive exercise.
- Severe distress, bullying, social withdrawal, self-harm talk, suicidal thoughts, or immediate safety concern.
- Use of unverified supplements, diet pills, extreme diets, or pressure from coaches or peers to change weight or shape.
Important facts for parents
- Eating concerns can occur in teenagers of any body size.
- Body-positive support does not mean ignoring health concerns; it means discussing health without shame.
- Online content may be edited, filtered, commercial, or harmful even when it looks normal.
Medical disclaimer
References
- American Academy of Pediatrics / HealthyChildren.org. Body image and eating disorder resources.
- Royal Children's Hospital Melbourne and Raising Children Network. Teen wellbeing and body image resources.
- NICE. Eating disorder and mental-health guidance.
- World Health Organization. Adolescent health and wellbeing resources.
Last reviewed: 17 June 2026.
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